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 The Parental Case Studies start with ...

Eight Questions to test  your “Pal-ability” :

1.) Do you agree that parenting is a lot more joy than duty ?
   ... although it is not easy to combine family life with a job, let alone a career

2.) Do you want to keep track with what your kids learn and how they use it ?
   ... and know about most of that stuff yourself instead of risking to lose touch

3.) Wouldn’t you rather know your kids’ friends (and their parents) ?
   ... despite the fact that liking them might be a challenge - well, occasionally

4.) Do you sometimes feel you deserve more recognition and support ?
   ... beyond your family and neighbourhood

5.) Would you welcome the opportunity of talking to other parents
     outside your ”established hunting grounds”?

    ... who share your interests and add new ideas

6.) Is it attractive to have your kids studying languages, sciences
     and even life itself in other countries ?
... if you have reliable friends there
      who are happy to be their hosts, mentors and sparring partners

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7.) Do you expect your kids to pass the trials of life with flying colours and a smile in their face ?
    ... because they shall have the knowledge, the self confidence, the courage and the style to manage well

8.) Is it important to you that your family relations remain strong and rewarding for the rest of your life ?
     ... which they will because you’re building up so many bonds of great experiences and shared values

palatable - pal-able ?

Eight times a genuine YES and you qualify for a true Parental Pal.
Please get started with some facts and figures (not dry stuff, actually very astonishing information) to see what’s in store for the kids of tomorrow and in what kind of circumstances they will live their lives. This YouTube video clip is the latest of a series called 
“Shift Happens - Globalization”, it will take you less than five minutes to watch. Millions of people all over the globe have seen it and/or its respective predecessors and they have started countless conversations. Then (we feel quite certain about that) you will be keen on the Case Studies, as you will have an even clearer picture of what’s awaiting your children ...

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Case Studies

This variety of scenarios is inspired by the great number of ideas, wishes and stories that came out of the parental partners dialogue - the Parental Pals’ generic forefathers.
Step by step we will
add YOUR stories and testimonials (the more the merrier !).

lady liberty

Louanne grew up in New York. As a true kid of the Bronx and the eldest of five children she did not have the chance to obtain the level of education she was longing for. She knew she had a good ear for languages and she adored anything to do with music, with the Alps and even more so with Switzerland. The “Sound of music” was her favourite movie and she knew the story and the songs of “Heidi” inside out too.
After a childhood that did not leave her too many illusions about life her luck changed when she was discovered by an indy label producer of soul and R & B music. Her voice now gave her financial independence and when she and her boyfriend became parents of twin girls she was a very happy woman and thankful for her good fortune.
When she was in hospital once a doctor told her about Parental Pals because she had mentioned her faible for Heidi and “Edelweiss”. Today she visits Lucerne, the beautiful home town of her Pal family twice a year:

lucerne, switzerland

And the Swiss family’s girls know New York’s subway system as well as they speak the local jargon (a little to the chagrin of their English teachers at school). Both families appreciate how much the various differences between them benefit them all.

camargue

Susanna from Cologne married a lawyer from France many years ago, they live in the Camarque. They still love each other very much, a very lively proof of this are their four children. Jean-Luc never managed to pick up any German, but Susanna had always hoped to be able to bring up the kids bilingual. This was harder than she had anticipated. Through Parental Pals she got in touch with a couple near Zurich who always wanted many kids (and had a very large mansion with enough room for a whole school class); they could not have any, so they raised four foster children over the years. Today they act as a third set of grandparents to Susannas children and all four of them also speak fluent “Swiss German” by now.

    Tom from Sweden has always been an ardent admirer of the Latin American style of playing football. Since he learned some basic Spanish in evening classes he also encouraged his two sons to study Spanish at school. Ever since they have become friendly with a Parental Pal family in Cordoba they are all the more enthusiastic: they have already been in Argentina twice by now, and not only for the football and the language!
    Eric, Toms younger son is now studying at Cordoba university. In exchange the family has arranged for Valeria, the only girl in their Pal family, to come to Sweden as an aupair. Her parents know she is safe and happy there.

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surfin the Alps to the ocean

Maria, who grew up in a skiing resort high up in the Tyrolean Alps had little choice but to take over her parents’ hotel, she was the only child. Although this meant a solid financial background it also prevented her from doing what her heart truly wanted: her dreams always took her to the sunshine of Hawaii and the surf of the Pacific ocean.
Ever since her husband Joe first established a frequent mail correspondence with two Australian families through Parental Pal the kids and parents at both sides have run up many airmiles travelling between Bondi Beach, the Snowy mountains and Innsbruck airport.
Through these trips they found out that quite a lot of other Austrians move between these destinations and have either winter or summer all year round this way too. An attractive and interesting lifestyle, particularly for folks in the hotel and catering business.

Salzburg festival

David and his wife Vanessa both grew up in Richmond, West London. They first fell in love with the music of Mozart at Glyndebourne before they were even married. Today they have three very musical daughters and all five set the focus of their annual holidays on culture and even more so on classical music. Parental Pals brought them together with a very likeminded family in Rosenheim in Bavaria, just an hours drive away from Salzburg and its summer festival of worldwide renown. Since flights are cheap and frequent between Salzburg and London both families profit a great deal from this friendship.

onegin and the opera

Both in Rosenheim and in Richmond there was always the option to leave some of the kids in grandmothers’ care when they were too little for such a long evening’s performance.
With the support of such favourable conditions they have been able to enjoy wonderful music and delightful evenings for many years by now. As a more than welcome bonus the English girls know a lot about Austria and Germany and the three Bavarian youngsters all speak excellent English.

Brigid grew up on a dairy farm in Denmark, she was an excellent student and finished her studies of biochemistry with distinction. After a year in the US (a grant can be a very helpful thing indeed !) she accepted an attractive job offer from Glaxo Smith Kline, a multinational pharmaceutic corporation. She enjoyed work there tremendously and was enthusiastic when she was asked if she wanted to go to Bangkok. Yes, she wanted to go and was in the middle of preparations when she realized that she was pregnant.

sunset in Bangkok

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Dave was born in Liverpool, UK, in the mid sixties. Before he started school his parents moved to Canada. In Quebec, where he still lives today, he had to come to terms with the fact that English is not always English and that he should be learning French too, the sooner the better. What made him rather unhappy at first soon turned into something that gave him a lot of satisfaction - her realized he had a remarkable talent for picking up languages and local dialects. After college Dave started to work for a bank and since he was ambitious and willing to learn this left him with little spare time for his great passion: he had secretly always wanted to be a painter.
But when his employers sent him to France for one year his time had finally come. In Paris he quickly signed up for painting lessons. His tutor was a very well known artist and he introduced him to Carole, a girl from Normandy with just as much artistic talent as good humour. Within three months they were married and when they had gone back to Quebec they set up a studio together. Today two of their three children paint too and their pictures increasingly contribute to the family income. Two other families - one in Paris and one in Florence - are their Parental Pals and their friendship has opened up many ways of developing their artistic skills. They visit each other frequently to attend summer schools and painting seminars in Italy, France and Canada. They even went to Liverpool together once (for a concert and for a little nostalgia) ! Dave and Carole would not care to imagine their life without art, travel and without these rewarding international friendships.

Shaun, her partner and colleague in research, who had already applied to go to Bangkok too, was delighted and tried his best to make her look forward to the baby. His childhood in Ireland had been very happy and he certainly wanted to have kids, preferably half a dozen. After a good deal of thought and consideration and acquiring a lot of relevant expat information they decided they wanted it all and went off to have the jobs, the baby and the new life in Thailand. Other expats recommended ParentalPal.Org to them and so they managed - two months before their departure and four months before the birth of the baby - to establish two special friendships which were to last for years. The knowledge and the support of these two couples who had babies themselves there was priceless and they were delighted to find out how many advantages there were to an expat life in the far east. All three families are still in Bangkok today and their kids attend kindergarten together.

Claude Monet
lookatitupsidedown

A German-German success story: Horst Lehmann and Horst Bergmann have more than the same first name in common. Both love sailing and golf. Lehmann lives in Cuxhaven and Bergmann in Lindau.
In between lies all of Germany and uncountable differences in culture, mentality, lifestyle, local dialect - mutual understanding is not necessarily to be taken for granted.
Yet - both Horsts and their partners Linda and Anna enjoy all the benefits their Parental Pal partnership has brought them as much as their respective sons do. The kids know all of Germany really well through many trips either way and they have grown to be excellent golfers and sailors.
Both dads are proud.

Kids back then and kids today. With parents who want them to be prepared for life and to be cheerful and open minded much the same then as they do today. But often enough it is not only a financial consideration if something can be made possible, a wish be fulfilled.

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Do we know the right places and people,
the best ways and means to get it right ? 
Or are there just too many obstacles ?
Too much remains unattempted because of
the inhibiting threshold of the unknown !

And here we’d like to offer you some case studies on global educational aspects, on their usual cost and what you could do about it.

By the way, don’t limit yourself
to two generations !!!

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case studies - all new stories are
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case study page - weblog !

The question for the child is not
 ”Do I want to be good?” but 
“Whom do I want to be like?”

Bruno Bettelheim,
Austrian-American child psychologist,
author (1903-1990)

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